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A Gentle Way Back to Yourself


The Flamingo Effect: When Women Lose Their Color—and How to Come Back to Themselves
There’s a quiet truth many women carry but rarely speak of: the feeling of losing themselves. Not in a dramatic, headline-worthy way. But...
ashtraeffendy
Jun 252 min read


What is Selaras? A Word, A Feeling, A Way Back to You
Feeling lost? You’re not broken—you’re unfolding. Self-discovery isn’t about becoming someone new; it’s about peeling back the noise and coming home to who you’ve always been. In this article, coach and PPD survivor Ashtra Dymach shares the messy, magical process of rediscovering yourself—especially after motherhood, burnout, or big life shifts. With research, reflection, and a touch of wit, this is your gentle invitation to begin again.
ashtraeffendy
Jun 12 min read


Why Self-Discovery Matters (Especially for Women & Mothers)
Feeling lost? You’re not broken—you’re unfolding. Self-discovery isn’t about becoming someone new; it’s about peeling back the noise and coming home to who you’ve always been. In this article, coach and PPD survivor Ashtra Dymach shares the messy, magical process of rediscovering yourself—especially after motherhood, burnout, or big life shifts. With research, reflection, and a touch of wit, this is your gentle invitation to begin again.
ashtraeffendy
Jun 12 min read


Matrescence in Indonesia: The Motherhood Identity Shift No One Talks About
Motherhood is more than diapers and lullabies—it's a rite of passage. Discover what matrescence really means, why it's missing from Indonesia’s motherhood narrative, and how you can come home to yourself again.
ashtraeffendy
Jun 12 min read
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