The Flamingo Effect: When Women Lose Their Color—and How to Come Back to Themselves
- ashtraeffendy
- Jun 25
- 2 min read

There’s a quiet truth many women carry but rarely speak of: the feeling of losing themselves.
Not in a dramatic, headline-worthy way. But in the quiet, invisible unraveling that comes with motherhood, life transitions, or simply surviving the demands of being everything to everyone.
This is what we call The Flamingo Effect.
Just like flamingos lose their pink hue when nurturing their chicks—because their energy, nutrients, and attention are poured into their young—women, too, can fade. They give. And give. And give again.
Until one day they ask:“Who am I now?”
A Gentle Space to Rediscover Who You Are
This question is not a crisis—it's an invitation. A soulful nudge to pause, realign, and reconnect.
That’s exactly why I created the Self Discovery Journey, a 2-hour mini class designed for mothers, women in transition, or anyone who feels quietly disconnected from themselves.
Whether you’re navigating a new season of life or simply craving clarity and calm, this space is yours.
What You’ll Experience in the Class:
✨ Guided Journaling — prompts to help you reflect and rediscover
✨ Breathwork — gentle practices to ground your body and mind
✨ Emotional Reconnection — a space to feel and release
✨ Downloadable Soul Journal — so your journey can continue after class
📆 Event Details
🗓️ Date: Friday, 25 July 2025🕖
Time: 19.00 – 21.00 WIB
📍 Location: Online via Zoom (Replay available for 5 days)
💰 Price: Rp 99.000 (early bird) / Rp 150.000 (normal)
📩 Register now through this link: [Insert GForm Link]DM @haloibuid if you have questions.
💛 Because You Deserve to Come Back to You
Register Here
This isn’t about becoming someone new.This is about gently coming home to the woman you already are.Your softness. Your strength. Your dreams. Your voice.
You haven’t lost yourself—you’ve just been loving deeply.Now it’s your turn to be loved—by you.
With love,
Ashtra Dymach
Self-Discovery & Matrescence Coach
Founder of Halo Ibu



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